Updated: Jan 3
It appears the Greys are quite slick. When you've been around the block a few billion more times it comes naturally. The inter-workings of the contract with our government stipulates that abductees must freely agree to be abducted. As a time traversing species, the Greys simply abduct those they know will agree in the future. "Humans are usually very frightened when abducted. However, over time they learn to know the Greys care about them and their evolution. They feel an authentic love frequency and become quite comfortable around the Greys. Many abductees eventually want to leave with their ET benefactors, and some actually do. So they wait for this point in time to pop the question, and the abductee invariably says 'Yes.' They're quite the sly group."